Godparents vs. Guardians: A Crucial Distinction for Parents with Young Children 

A carefully drafted, comprehensive estate plan allows you to nominate the people who could care for your children as their Guardian in the event you are unable to care for them yourself, thus ensuring the safety and stability of your children.

It is not uncommon for parents to think that if their children have godparents there is no need to formally designate a Guardian in their estate plan; however, that is not the case.

Given the importance of the Guardian’s role, it is essential for parents with minor children to understand the difference between a godparent and a Guardian.

What is a Godparent?

Traditionally, a godparent is someone who commits to support a child’s spiritual growth and moral development; however, a godparent may also act as an informal, secular mentor during the child’s life. Some families and communities celebrate this commitment with a formal ceremony or recognition event. 

Although a godparent may play an important role in a child’s life, a godparent does not have any legal authority, and specifically does not have any authority to care for the child if the child’s parents are unable to do so themselves.

What is a Guardian?

Typically, a Guardian is formally nominated in an estate planning document such as a Last Will and Testament or a Pour-over-Will to care for a minor child if that child’s parents are unable to do so themselves. While the documents nominate the Guardian, they must be formally appointed by the court to that role to begin serving. The court issues documentation that is used to prove this authority to third parties, such as doctors and schools. 

A Guardian does have legal authority to: (1) make decisions related to the child’s living arrangements, whether with the guardian or with other suitable persons; (2) make decisions related to the child’s education and healthcare; and (3) make any other decisions related to the child’s physical well-being, until the child turns 18. 

The role of Guardian involves significant responsibility. Accordingly, parents with minor children should think carefully about who they want to designate as Guardian. It is also critical to name one or two alternate people who could step in if the person you have nominated first is unable to serve at that time. 

Note: A parent may choose to formally designate the child’s godparent as Guardian in their estate planning documents, but the godparent and the Guardian do not need to be the same person.

 

FAQs:

• Can a godparent automatically become my child’s Guardian?
  No. Godparents have no legal authority unless formally nominated as Guardian in your estate planning documents, and appointed by the court.
• What happens if I do not name a Guardian?
  A court will decide who to appoint as your child’s Guardian, which may not reflect your wishes and may result in confusion and family conflict if there are multiple family members who want to serve.

• Can the Guardian manage my child’s finances?
  Generally a court will separately appoint a Conservator to handle your child’s finances. Learn more about that role here.

Conclusion

For a parent with minor children, a proactive approach to estate planning is key to ensuring that your children will be cared for in a crisis . If you are in Oregon and have questions related to Guardians and estate planning with minor children, Willamette Legacy Law is here is help. We can also review any existing estate plan you may have in place. Click here to schedule a compassionate, no obligation consultation.

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